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<blockquote style="position: relative; padding-left: 55px;"><section><a href="https://hachyderm.io/users/inthehands/statuses/111121140335198343">Paul Cantrell (inthehands@hachyderm.io)'s status on Monday, 25-Sep-2023 01:47:23 JST</a><a href="https://hachyderm.io/@inthehands" title="inthehands@hachyderm.io"><img src="https://gnusocial.jp/avatar/53259-48-20231130154634.webp" width="48" height="48" alt="Paul Cantrell" style="position: absolute; left: 0; top: 0;">Paul Cantrell</a><div><ul><li></ul></div></section><article><p>This from <a href="https://mastodon.social/@JuliusGoat">@JuliusGoat</a> is closely related to what I was thinking when I first heard the Access Hollywood tape:<br><a href="https://mastodon.social/@JuliusGoat/111120967530237977" rel="nofollow noreferrer">https://mastodon.social/@JuliusGoat/111120967530237977</a></p><p>Bullies, abusers, all these gross people are constantly testing the waters — to see what they can get away with, and also to see •who• will let them get away with it. It’s about looking for targets, and it’s also about social group formation.<br>1/</p></article><footer><a rel="bookmark" href="https://gnusocial.jp/conversation/2097299#notice-4118735">In conversation</a><time datetime="2023-09-25T01:47:23+09:00" title="Monday, 25-Sep-2023 01:47:23 JST">Monday, 25-Sep-2023 01:47:23 JST</time> <span>from <span><a href="https://hachyderm.io/@inthehands/111121140335198343" rel="external" title="Sent from hachyderm.io via ActivityPub">hachyderm.io</a></span></span><a href="https://hachyderm.io/@inthehands/111121140335198343">permalink</a><h4>Attachments</h4><ol><li><article><header><div>No result found on File_thumbnail lookup.</div><h5><a href="https://mastodon.social/@JuliusGoat/111120967530237977Bullies">A.R. Moxon, Verified Duck 🦆 (@JuliusGoat@mastodon.social)</a></h5><div> from <span>A.R. Moxon, Verified Duck 🦆</span></div></header><div>I’ve noticed some other things about bullies. For example, bullies tend to operate on a sliding scale of permission. They start by pretending to do a thing to see how pretending goes for them before actually doing it. If they catch any heat, they were just joking.If they don’t get opposed for issuing threats, then they understand that to be permission, and then they progress to actually doing it, and if that works out for them, then they progress to doing more.And sometimes much more.</div><footer></footer></article></li></ol></footer></blockquote>

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Paul Cantrell (inthehands@hachyderm.io)'s status on Monday, 25-Sep-2023 01:47:23 JSTPaul Cantrell
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This from @JuliusGoat is closely related to what I was thinking when I first heard the Access Hollywood tape:
https://mastodon.social/@JuliusGoat/111120967530237977
Bullies, abusers, all these gross people are constantly testing the waters — to see what they can get away with, and also to see •who• will let them get away with it. It’s about looking for targets, and it’s also about social group formation.
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  I’ve noticed some other things about bullies. For example, bullies tend to operate on a sliding scale of permission. They start by pretending to do a thing to see how pretending goes for them before actually doing it. If they catch any heat, they were just joking. If they don’t get opposed for issuing threats, then they understand that to be permission, and then they progress to actually doing it, and if that works out for them, then they progress to doing more. And sometimes much more.

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