The thing I hate the most about "Trans men are me and men are bad so trans men oppress me!!" is that I've never actually met a trans guy who wants to perpetuate patriarchy, they've all been wanting to queer the concept of manhood and embrace feminine aspects of themselves and be little twink elf fairies who want to destroy gender

The idea of the bad trans guy is like, one YouTuber and a couple people on Twitter, and maybe some ignorant people who talk over trans women, but trans men are not universally accepted by cis men and don't universally perpetuate misogyny, and takes like that are probably why you don't know any