though not formally diagnosed, I often feel the frustration you describe. our being largely insensitive to common propaganda/advertisement triggers used quite effectively for manipulation of the majority of the population makes us Cassandras, able to see through the smokescreen, but unable to break the spell that blinds others.
but I don't like the us-vs-them stance I sense in your post. difficult as it is to cross the chasm that sets in because of our fundamentally different ways of reasoning and being influenced by emotions, I believe this diversity too can be very enriching to humankind. we need tolerance, inclusion, and disposition to overcome the difficulties from people at all spots in the spectrum, whether neurotypical or neurodivergent