i don't know how else to phrase this thought so lemme just toss it out into the universe:
given the variety of jurisdictions where interacting with a minor *in any way* while trans opens transgender adults to legal harassment:
actual minors, you cannot control your parent(s) or legal guardian(s).
plural systems who count the ages of individual members, *please be specific with your age notations.* the law does not care about individual existence timers, just how long your body has existed.