@YKantRachelRead I guess the thing that astouds me more is how many TMA people I've met who have had these experiences, and yet this shit still happens so fucking often where the TMEs pull some bullshit and whoever gets targeted ends up completely exiled and often has no one to tell them like "yeah you got fucked over and aren't a bad person". a lot of the time other transfems take part in it even

it's like, I get it rationally why the TMEs do this and why other transfems just keep their heads down hoping it won't happen to them, but we're stronger together by refusing to allow them to get away with this and leave yet another transfem isolated who already is probably extremely precarious to begin with. it's a situation that has vexed me for years