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@PaulaToThePeople Sadly, stories of aces who were pressured into sex not neccessarily by their partners but society in general are too common. I think this is a much bigger issue than consent because it calls into question our view on sex in general.

Being sexual is expected from us and this is a problem.

IMHO sex should be seen as optional, not as obligation.

My "red line" was about consent, not about the broader view on sex (which is much trickier).