@PaulaToThePeople I disagree by the way that if you're ace and don't know it yet you will automatically engage in sex if pressured enough. I think it depends on the specific person.
As for me, I was affected by allonormativity and (falsely) bought into all bad sex stereotypes. I thought I was hetero but I never got around to actually have sex. It sucked because it made me feel bad but eventually I accepted I'm just ace and all bad feelings went POOF. It was quite liberating.