@MordecaiMartin Lol it ain't easy! There's a few more years left of messy stuff, but the first three months are the hardest. Did you hear of the "fourth trimester" hypothesis of pregnancy? I've found the thought both weird and heartwarming, like what better indication of a social animal than the household and community sharing in "pregnancy," growing the fetus together for the final stretch in the extended womb of the home?