I see this sentiment A LOT both online and IRL, that if a woman is disorganized or messy, that she must have ADHD. Yes, I have actually had people say this to me, as if I don’t already have a damn spoon shortage for other reasons on top of not being raised in a family that prioritized keeping things spic and span.

Funny how we don’t say that men must have ADHD if they aren’t neat freaks.

This really needs to stop, as I see men saying it about women who don’t keep a spotless house, I have women who say it to me because I’m not perfectly organized, etc.