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<blockquote style="position: relative; padding-left: 55px;"><section><a href="https://hachyderm.io/users/inthehands/statuses/110918312714700990">Paul Cantrell (inthehands@hachyderm.io)'s status on Sunday, 20-Aug-2023 06:05:39 JST</a><a href="https://hachyderm.io/@inthehands" title="inthehands@hachyderm.io"><img src="https://gnusocial.jp/avatar/53259-48-20231130154634.webp" width="48" height="48" alt="Paul Cantrell" style="position: absolute; left: 0; top: 0;">Paul Cantrell</a><div><a href="https://mastodon.social/@Nouscat/110918264371465418" rel="in-reply-to">in reply to</a><ul><li></ul></div></section><article><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/@Nouscat">@Nouscat</a><br>OK, I’ll do my best!</p><p>One easy piece of Masto advice: reply less. I describe my rationale and practice for that in this thread: <a href="https://hachyderm.io/@inthehands/109847524655671130" rel="nofollow noreferrer">https://hachyderm.io/@inthehands/109847524655671130</a></p><p>In the case of your reply above, the trouble is it’s completely ambiguous: it can read either as (1) an offer to work, or (2) as a demand for explanation / self-justification / labor. And Black people on Masto experience a •lot• of (2), so of course that’s the more probable reading for Kim — even though it’s not your intent.</p></article><footer><a rel="bookmark" href="https://gnusocial.jp/conversation/1967034#notice-3862201">In conversation</a><time datetime="2023-08-20T06:05:39+09:00" title="Sunday, 20-Aug-2023 06:05:39 JST">about a year ago</time> <span>from <span><a href="https://hachyderm.io/@inthehands/110918312714700990" rel="external" title="Sent from hachyderm.io via ActivityPub">hachyderm.io</a></span></span><a href="https://hachyderm.io/@inthehands/110918312714700990">permalink</a><h4>Attachments</h4><ol><li><article><header><div>No result found on File_thumbnail lookup.</div><h5><a href="https://hachyderm.io/@inthehands/109847524655671130In">Paul Cantrell (@inthehands@hachyderm.io)</a></h5><div> from <span>Paul Cantrell</span></div></header><div>I keep hearing various forms of this about Mastodon, again and again: https://techhub.social/@shantini/109846267606765856I’ve experienced it a bit myself — unhelpful replies that miss the point of the post and either restate the obvious, are aggressively pedantic, or go straight to 100 with out-of-left-field hostility — but I’m clearly not experiencing it on the same scale as others, particularly women.And yes, that’s all the Internet, but…it seems to be unusually bad here for many people. Let’s not shrug it off.
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Paul Cantrell (inthehands@hachyderm.io)'s status on Sunday, 20-Aug-2023 06:05:39 JSTPaul Cantrell
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OK, I’ll do my best!
One easy piece of Masto advice: reply less. I describe my rationale and practice for that in this thread: https://hachyderm.io/@inthehands/109847524655671130
In the case of your reply above, the trouble is it’s completely ambiguous: it can read either as (1) an offer to work, or (2) as a demand for explanation / self-justification / labor. And Black people on Masto experience a •lot• of (2), so of course that’s the more probable reading for Kim — even though it’s not your intent.
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  I keep hearing various forms of this about Mastodon, again and again: https://techhub.social/@shantini/109846267606765856 I’ve experienced it a bit myself — unhelpful replies that miss the point of the post and either restate the obvious, are aggressively pedantic, or go straight to 100 with out-of-left-field hostility — but I’m clearly not experiencing it on the same scale as others, particularly women. And yes, that’s all the Internet, but…it seems to be unusually bad here for many people. Let’s not shrug it off. 1/

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