I would argue there aren't as many men that provide or protect. Single parent households are rising for every demographic and men can avoid responsibility and point to the women all they want but they did it too.
The entire institution of the family is an enemy to those that hate the good.
I didn't marry purity to make sure I was the father, I did it because that is a signal of strength and virtue and I wanted that in a partner and nurturer to my kids.