4:45?! Kid is sleeping in. Every case is unique but there are general screentime rules which should be no brainers like not being glued to a screen at meals and with company. I haven't heard anything that egregious regarding being that hypocritical.

I know people whose kids sleep wild and wacky hours and it would be impossible to get any sleep if he didn't get a little screen time, I'm not going to say anything negative about that.