@Cousin_Isobel I don't know but back in the day, people would have kept such thoughts to themselves for the most part, at least in the places I was working and hanging. Maybe it's better to know what people are thinking? I dunno.

Most of the time I should probably just let things go by as is suggested in most mental health practices!

(For me, the one job I remember being fired from was due to false accusations and I never did find out where they came from or why nor did the boss understand how logically I couldn't possibly have done what they said I had!)