@NEETzsche @theorytoe @dcc @dushman @sun_eater i usually give the contact and then recommend blabber.im as a client and tell them to put a certain server, they wont know what that means or really care. we get on, we talk, they inevitably ask what that meant or what this is, and i will make a comparison to "oh its like email where you can have a gmail or yahoo or whatever and still email each other" and they get it