@abolisyonista Same, same. And I still *try* to work with orgs when I need to, but I've definitely moved away from that being explicitly where I go.
Especially because the IWA-related one near me has worked with and supported "anarcho"-nationalists. 🙃 And also refuses to actually deal with harassment and abuse that takes place within their section.
Also, they seem to find it very strange and confusing that marginalised genders won't work with them! As if it's complicated to figure out how the anarchomachos in the group make it uncomfortable for most of us.