I don’t value free speech, it is fundamentally in conflict with my beliefs. There is no reason to taint your community with pedophilia just to uphold a principle which is only useful to a subversive attacking a wider community which holds it.
I do understand the need for diplomacy, but tbqh I don’t think that’s what’s going on. My instance still federates with poast despite my admin not acting like friends with graf, AND hosting someone he hates enough to personally defederate.
Honestly I don’t want to keep arguing. I don’t go after matty for this on my own because I don’t think its something worth bringing up. I still agree with bot that its bad and he shouldn’t do it so I’ll chime in when I see it mentioned, but it’s not something I have any control over.