No, I genuinely found it very offputting when I saw my instance admin acting buddy buddy with a guy who makes pedo jokes and hosts loli porn (sjw).

Also I think being nice to everyone and all this diplomacy shit is cucked and lame. I find people who are honest about how they feel about others and willing to say what they think is true when it makes them unpopular are far more likable than cucks who just go with the flow on everything.