Another iteration of this I just heard was, "Lots of people won't like this because sure they talk about - and use the word - 'patriarchy,' but then they go on to specifically criticize men!" 🤡

And honestly, that's why I typically avoid using words that make things vague (just by virtue of how they've been used especially in libfem-associated mental gymnastics), primarily patriarchy, femininity, and masculinity. Sure the people who usually wouldn't listen to me still won't listen to me. But at least there won't be ambiguity as to what I'm talking about.

RT: https://spinster.xyz/objects/3ed84b5a-0004-48c3-b8d4-06609cc91821