@PraxisOfEvil @Owl It's hard to talk about this without sounding like some PUA faggot. Basically you get the woman you deserve, if you want a decent mate you have to outcompete your peers, just like you wouldn't settle for some crackhead women won't find an average loser attractive. I'm not talking about hypergamy or other such nonsense, it's for your own sake, you have to be content with yourself first. Relationships have always been about give and take, you just have to have something better to offer. If biology wasn't kind to you then you have to be a good provider, on the flipside if you're a natural born gigachad you'll get tons of worthless pussy and end up with a divorce.

tl;dr just bee yourself (yourself being a man who deserves a good woman)