Ooof, I would like to encourage my fellow cishet-ish colonizer-descended folx to not get up in the replies when the others are talking/discussing the issues and problems they've had with cishet colonizer-descended types and how they deal with them. We're privileged to see it and it can be a great learning experience, but I think, unless invited, we should just be wallflowers on those.
Gives off some serious "not all men" energy otherwise.
YMMV, any guarantees are not a guarantee.