@ic3l9 Mm... You just plugged into this discussion a "to us" and "to you" larger groups and attached a set of global behaviors to the said groups (of course, one true/friendly, another one mean/toxic where you did put me on the fly, because "why not"). All of this reductive and essentialist work extrapolated from a toot discussion. For what final goal? To force me to say "thank you" in return for an insult.
Sorry to disappoint, but it is not gonna happen.