@Owl @Red-Potato @Boomerman There are men who have made the honest effort, and there are those who haven't. In the end, only the man can ask himself, "Did I really try my best? Did I really make an honest assessment of who I am and the kind of woman I can attract?"

But there are many, many men who spent their teenage years going to youth group, studying the Bible, trusting God for a wife "when the time is right" like the pastors all said, improving themselves and learning to get an income the best they can, only to find that the women went to college and all became whores.