@atomicpoet I feel this in my bones, but just be aware that avoiding all conflict is a great way to find yourself paired up with the worst people. A total lack of conflict very often means maintenance of the status quo and capitulation to whoever's more charming and powerful, which in an unjust world very often means siding with giant corporations and genocidal colonizers. Vulnerable people can't assume anyone supports them, it takes active advocacy to make that known.