@christineluc yeah really! And white people telling people of color to CW their posts about racism, and casual racism in comments, and the list goes on.
Are the reply guys on that instance or elsewhere? If they're elsewhere, then hachyderm could be a good instance to be part of the "subset" I talked about. But if the hachyderm community is filled with guys like that, then it's big enough that'll be hard to turn around without a major effort (and willingness to lose people)