I don't like meeting chicks at the gym, throws off the mood in my honest opinion, unless she's the one reciprocating genuine interest.

Grocery store on the other hand is random. Nice, but random. I do notice head turns, and my head certainly turns from time to time. Except it would help if 70% of the local population wasn't either aged out, obese or complexion of brown.

I don't know what the fuck to do anymore or what is best. There is no community to fall back on.