@Terra @Ghostynn @YouShallNotPass @Dani @AlwaysAutumn I get what you're saying, but for me this isn't purely about "the bigots". It's actually, to me, far more about (1) if this alternate term offers me a new perspective on my experience such that I can take healthy steps I couldn't before (2) if this makes things clearer or muddier to non-bigots whom I am trying to express my experience.