@bagder FWIW I do not think you are a horrible person and I thank you for all your work on cURL.
P.S. Not all of them hate you and some people are taking some of your points onboard, e.g. see the final section of
gemini://gemini.ctrl-c.club/~tjp/gl/2023-05-29-mising-the-point.gmi
Or via a https proxy:
https://portal.mozz.us/gemini/gemini.ctrl-c.club/~tjp/gl/2023-05-29-mising-the-point.gmi