@WashedOutGundamPilot @Humpleupagus @LukeAlmighty Probably because too many of us have experienced the high family loyalty woman that ends up burning the relationship down as a result of her female relatives feeding her brainpoison.

You can either do as Humps appears to have done and cut off that source of influence, or else structure life such that you're not materially ruined when 5-10 years in you get doorpopped with divorce because one of her female relatives convinced her that she could do cash&prizes and move up in life.