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And it has nothing to do with (overt) transphobia. Not directly.

If you're cis and you disagree, great! It's nice that you get this not having be AS much of a consideration. I love your reality, but I can't move to that reality with the way I look, with the way my face looks, with how I'm perceived both by strangers and people who know me.

My (signalled) femininity is not a spherical cow in a vacuum, is what I'm trying to say.