@ssorayaa @Ruusu @paulo @marine @rees @Leaflord @bot @waifu Attitude actually does change things, you just have to want to change, put in the effort to make those gradual behavioral changes, thought changes... it is literally like reprogramming and rewiring your brain. If you do something consistently you eventually become more like whatever it is.

Shit circumstances is another thing though. But unfortunately, people hate to hear it, but nearly everything, in most cases, can be changed for the better, with our willingness and action to do so.

Church seems fun and all but if you are more of your own thinker I don't think it will work the same as others