@GalacticTurtle One of the things I continue to be dumbfounded by is men who see the idea of comment as some sort of game show where women have to battle their shite to win a non existent grand prize.
And that the woman has somehow failed or let them down when she finally says no more.

My sister recently gave her alcoholic husband notice that she's had enough and will be getting her finances in order to leave. I can 100% guarantee that he will act like it's the first time he's heard this information when she does. Everyone else will be asking what took you so long.