I could choose to view this as a personal insult. "Men aren't even allowed to speak?! That's reverse sexism!!!"
But it's really not.
Or "Only Asian people are allowed to speak about Asian hate?! Waddabout Anti-Black racism!!!"
But that's not a good framing.
I can talk about Asian hate whenever I want. And I do! Just... Not at a moment where an Asian woman asks other Asian women to share their experiences. I can't explain why this would be the absolute wrong time to insist that I talk too.