She is right. This isn't a pay to win site, and every member is on the same footing regardless of whether they have donated or not. Donations aren't a shield from being banned or made fun of if you act like a retard. It's right in the site about page, there are no sacred cows here. If Jim suddenly starts posting grindr photos of his ass I would call him gay for it too.

You donated $100 for a custom badge, which I gave you. I give these to anyone who donates any amount, even $1. YOU chose to donate $100 and I also gave you a chudbuds email address. I had you on my stream more than once. You were a mod in the matrix server because you hung out there 24/7. I only removed you as a matrix mod and your mail account (which you weren't using) after you migrated off the instance. If you thought mistakenly that a dono would make you my bestest bud and protect you from ridicule, sorry. No refunds. Do a charge back if you think you didn't get your money's worth out of a DONATION and you want to be an asshole about it.