@angryandignored I think you are right, it is all rather confusing. There are so many different ways that this can happen. Trying to be understanding and accepting can be dangerous for us, it can erode our own boundaries and understanding of the world. It can put us at risk because of who we are in contact with for these things. I definitely cannot keep up with all the new labels that people use, the labels that are trending at a given moment. But these things are brushed aside, erased and ignored as concerns. Or you are made to feel like the bad one for needing to protect yourself.

Thanks for the extra information. The world does seem pretty screwed up.