@brigrammer @Nils
You are partially right, but you missed the element of choice.
Men do not have a choice to rape because hormones tell us we're horny and alcohol makes our brain slow. I have never crossed the line to assault anyone, physically or sexually even when I was no longer able to walk.
Yet, women can literally murder and still get away with it. And here is the computation. Your brain always weighs action to 2 variables. First is natural consequences, and the 2nd is punishment. By removing punishment, you make the action more likely, even when the brain is slow in the first place.