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@Mastodon : can we set our preferred default for visibility, quotes, etc., so that we don't have to go through all these every time we post something ? For instance I never want to post a reply to myself (aka a thread) that's quiet ; Mastodon keeps forcing some toots to be quiet only to tell me "careful now, you added a hashtag but this is a quiet post so it won't be seen !".
Then why did I opt in the search ? Why did I put a hashtag ? Clearly I want my post discoverable. Let me make it default.