People who want to alienate you from what you feel are never to be trusted.
Your feelings do not always represent external, objective reality, but they represent *your* reality, & part of their purpose is to let you know when you are being harmed or you have been harmed in a way that needs a resolution.
My emotions guided me out of my abusive marriage. When I stopped ignoring them & listened to what they were telling me, I understood that I had to leave.