Your follow of my account needs approval? It's not me, it's you.

Join a better instance.

This message means my instance has silenced your instance. Your instance has received complaints and either hasn't acted or supported abusers, so we've silenced it.

You live in a sewer.

I don't want racism, homophobia, transphobia, Q cultists, or other jerks in my timeline.

I don't look at these requests. Not worth my time. Join a server with better moderation and we'll talk.