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Fashion for me is uncomfortably linked with difficult questions I don’t want to think about regarding gender

Any kind of dressing up for me is related to oppressive gender norms

I know I get to present a certain way without being penalized for it, because of my profession and location but I would pick this over having to pretend to give a shit over dresses and skirts and nice women’s clothing any day

When nobody gives a shit because everybody dresses like shit

And it’s not even a topic of discussion ever… it helps me not panic over ‘how to dress as a woman in tech’.

I think people who really like fashion really struggle.