The last time I talked to her was December of 2011. After years of her low-key misgendering abuse, and confronting her on the most rotten of racist attitudes, I was done.
But I figure, that if a person is so stupid and mean spirited that they think skin pigmentation makes one group of humans better and more deserving than another group, they're going to be complete fuckers about other differences too.
And she was.
Fuck her.