understand this: i am, obviously, upset about the stalking (i should mention that a month before i found her in my home she issued a murder/suicide threat online), but i am lucky slash unlucky to have the background which makes me prepared for that in particular. i'm like, _fine_. i had a script for "home invasion".
what i was unprepared with is how many people (both over the years and in this particular incident) would coddle and enable the stalker. _that_ ruined my mental health all right