@hellomiakoda everyone's Neurospice is different. Some have that spice that plays well with others or doesn't over stim in big social situations... That's not me.
It's not our job to correct their misunderstanding of the situation. Let them white knuckle thru reality however they are comfortable. Just try to keep yourself comfortable(ish) and polite as possible until it's time to retreat.
I bailed later than expected this year, but will be in full hermit mode for many days to recalibrate