@fembot well, take portland for example. everybody says it's a great city. it is. but it is just not a city i could ever foresee myself living in happily. the situation with the sun (and the lack of it) makes it impossible. i can't even consider it. i would be morose and depressed. to the extreme. the rest of the city just doesn't vibe with me either. i feel like that about most of the west coast. even san francisco. i never loved it. it's home, but it's just not right for me.
some people are just drawn to different things.