Imagine what must be inside the minds of people who threw away their own well being because "they/them" and "hiem/hir" (not intentionally mocking. I doubt I got neopronouns right) were used by a few people here and there, and a small number of people "cut off their own dicks".
I can't phathom this thought process at all!
Do you have any idea how much I have given 0 shits about any dick on anybody anywhere who wasn't forcing it on me?