@ErosBlog Vulva diversity is real, but using it as an excuse for poor sexual attentiveness especially from men is lazy at best and dismissive at worst. As a bisexual woman I'm gonna say if you're in bed with someone, and you're engaged, present, asking, responding, listening, you're going to figure it out regardless of shape or size. Plus the little “bean” is just the tip of the iceberg. Some of us don’t even like direct clit touch but enjoy stimulation around it 👋☺️