@pomstan @PhenomX6 @xianc78 @alex @gnusocialjp Which is why I said "kind of".

> in your scheme I’m forced to constantly suck janny cocks in order to get seen

Then it means you don't understand what I'm saying.
I already said there should be options between no federation by default and with a whitelist (or without), or full federation by default with a blacklist (or without).
There are cases where you want to have a community of like minded people, and there are cases where you want to have an open door policy, depends on which kind of community you want to have.

There's no cock sucking involved with that.