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   Fesshole 🧻 (fesshole@mastodon.social)'s status on Monday, 07-Sep-2026 05:20:33 JST Fesshole 🧻

   My type is the emotionally tortured, scruffy artist type. My husband has never been more attractive than immediately after his mom died and he stopped taking care of himself for a month.

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     Daburu Dar (daburudar@mastodon.social)'s status on Monday, 07-Sep-2026 05:35:00 JST Daburu Dar

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     @fesshole Fucking hell, that' awful.

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     CourtCantrell will not comply (courtcan@mastodon.social)'s status on Monday, 07-Sep-2026 23:40:15 JST CourtCantrell will not comply

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     @fesshole The "scruffy artist" look and the "man in the throes of grief" look are two very different looks/vibes/affects. I say this as a woman artist who also finds scruffy artists attractive and whose husband lost both of his parents within the space of <2 months.

     Fessor might want to ponder just what it is inside themselves that made their husband's outward expression of inner pain attractive to them.