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   DarkMahesvara (darkmahesvara@varishangout.net)'s status on Tuesday, 26-Aug-2025 16:54:52 JST DarkMahesvara

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   @Iffine @kilostere we don't need therapists, the only reason people think they do is because the natural support community that has existed around the church for centuries has been (((systemically))) destroyed. priests in the past where therapists without all the bullshit like obnoxious self importance, judgmental circle jerk and ridiculous costs. im not even religious
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     Dunkag (iffine@varishangout.net)'s status on Tuesday, 26-Aug-2025 16:54:52 JST Dunkag

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     @DarkMahesvara @kilostere Honestly I don't even think the flaw is in the concept of a therapist so much as the function of one. The confessional was perfect, it was a way to vent out thoughts and recover from feelings. The priest wouldn't respond or do much of anything with the knowledge gained (ideally, I'm sure some assholes were in existence but those are besides the point).
     
     Meanwhile therapy is a job that is overpaid for offering worse consolation. Having someone to talk to is always a benefit if they can actually listen. Instead the current existence of therapists are starbucks drinking whores who suggest you need to fuck 15 people a week to be happy. Try to talk and get some bad feeling out? Nope, instead the therapist will interrupt and say "but how does this story involve me?" Maybe if you're lucky they'll tell you what star sign you are so you can waste money on gemstones.
     
     I do agree that many a flaw of our modern world comes from the deconstruction of faith and communities within our society, but I think it caused a different form of issue that is far more simple in this specific case. Therapists want so desperately to be different from a church or confessional that they make everything worse. They don't want to listen, they don't want to be there as a way to console someone. They only want to "solve the problem." That's a fundamental misstep. Who is to say this is even a problem? Maybe the mental block is a reasonable thought that the one going in is just overthinking? Therapists aren't there to see that though, they're there to offer worthless suggestions that only work for the most outgoing of extroverts who don't have these problems to begin with.
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     Dunkag (iffine@varishangout.net)'s status on Tuesday, 26-Aug-2025 16:54:53 JST Dunkag

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     @DarkMahesvara @kilostere Truly therapists are such an important role in society. Who else better to talk about the deepest and worst emotions with than a white woman who acts like she's a starring role in the game Façade, waiting for you to mistakenly say "melon" in a story all so she can kick you out and call you one of the most horrific people she's ever met. :flan_tired:
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     DarkMahesvara (darkmahesvara@varishangout.net)'s status on Tuesday, 26-Aug-2025 16:54:54 JST DarkMahesvara

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     @kilostere but then do a psychotic 180 calling you incel if you dare imply that you are sad you will live and die alone
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     :gura_sus: 1e+6 litres :flag_china: (kilostere@varishangout.net)'s status on Tuesday, 26-Aug-2025 16:54:55 JST :gura_sus: 1e+6 litres :flag_china:

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     >no human being can go through that
     and its just anotha chuesday :gyate_cirno:
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     DarkMahesvara (darkmahesvara@varishangout.net)'s status on Tuesday, 26-Aug-2025 16:54:56 JST DarkMahesvara
     the worst thing about covid times is that normal fags are still cry about them like they where some WW2 PTSD inducing cast away social interaction extinction event