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   Joscelyn Transpiring (joscelyntransient@chaosfem.tw)'s status on Sunday, 11-May-2025 14:26:54 JST Joscelyn Transpiring

   One of the ways I know transphobes have never actually known a trans person in real life is that they think we make lots of demands on others, insist on taking up space, and don’t care about inconveniencing others. Like, anyone who has known or cared about a trans person knows it is like pulling teeth to get them to reach out or allow others in for support. Almost all of us are all carrying the trauma of having internalized the message that asking to exist as ourselves is such an imposition on others we have been afraid to do it most of our lives.

   Like, is there a single trans person on the fedi who has not said at least once that they feel like a burden if they express any of their needs or desires, much less even ask others to use the correct pronouns for them?

   Meanwhile, most transphobes think that it’s discrimination against them for other people to exist.

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     Aral Balkan (aral@mastodon.ar.al)'s status on Sunday, 11-May-2025 14:28:39 JST Aral Balkan

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     • Claudius Link

     @JoscelynTransient @realn2s Sending you so much love. Nolite te bastardes carborundorum.

     🏳️⚧️💕