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   Miakoda (hellomiakoda@pdx.social)'s status on Sunday, 12-Jan-2025 10:43:19 JST Miakoda

   I don't talk about my #incontinence much simply because I'm worried it's a topic nobody wants to hear about, but I'm not all that embarassed by it. If you suffer incontinence and need advice, or even if you're just curious, it's a topic I don't mind you bringing up.

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     Miakoda (hellomiakoda@pdx.social)'s status on Sunday, 12-Jan-2025 11:03:19 JST Miakoda

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     • Natasha Nox 🇺🇦🇵🇸

     @Natanox
     Eh, they did offer some device internally, but it seemed too invasive with too many risks and downsides for too little quality of life improvement.

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     Natasha Nox 🇺🇦🇵🇸 (natanox@chaos.social)'s status on Sunday, 12-Jan-2025 11:03:21 JST Natasha Nox 🇺🇦🇵🇸

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     @hellomiakoda I keep wondering how there isn't a neatly fitting artificial… "opening muscle" (what's it called?) available by now.

     Keep imagining it like in Stargate but less blue.
     "Open the iris!"
     *shutter-sound*
     *toilet splatters*

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     Miakoda (hellomiakoda@pdx.social)'s status on Sunday, 12-Jan-2025 11:06:46 JST Miakoda

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     • Sally Strange

     @SallyStrange
     @Looping

     The people pleasing part of my brain conflicts with the normalizing disability part of my brain.

     People speak of going to the bathroom all the time. There should be no reason it should be unacceptable to mention a diaper change in the same casual mannor.
     I think it's weird as fuck there is so much stigma around it.

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     Sally Strange (sallystrange@eldritch.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 12-Jan-2025 11:06:48 JST Sally Strange

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     • Anarco-Looping

     @Looping @hellomiakoda I gather you find it hard to talk about?

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     Anarco-Looping (looping@anticapitalist.party)'s status on Sunday, 12-Jan-2025 11:06:49 JST Anarco-Looping

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     • Sally Strange

     @hellomiakoda @SallyStrange I force myself to talk about it from time to time, to popularize it so that the able-bodied have the opportunity to think about it.

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     Anarco-Looping (looping@anticapitalist.party)'s status on Sunday, 12-Jan-2025 11:12:09 JST Anarco-Looping

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     • Sally Strange

     @hellomiakoda @SallyStrange I imagine that we are touching on something intimate, plus our dissonance of living in an able-bodied world.

     And yet, from an anti-ableist point of view, we have to talk about it!

     I had made this toot :https://anticapitalist.party/@Looping/112643804478690793

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     Miakoda (hellomiakoda@pdx.social)'s status on Sunday, 12-Jan-2025 11:14:51 JST Miakoda

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     • Sally Strange

     @Looping
     @SallyStrange

     In my case, diapers remain the best option for me for a multitude of reasons. I'm glad those work for you. I'm sure the fact I'm not mobility disabled has a big impact on diapers working well for me, as I'm able to change them myself.